justwannabeskinnyy:

thinnerwinner:

ifieverleft:

We love you too, boys, stay safe

for any of my male followers xx

~~~ just because you are not the majority, does not mean your ed is invalid ~~~

i-am-rai:

babychubbuff:

littlemousling:

Totally cool: “Hey, do you want to be exclusive?”

Red flag: “No one but me is allowed to touch you.”

Totally cool: “It makes me feel weird when you flirt with other people, can we talk about that?”

Red flag: “If you loved me, you would stop being friends with them. You KNOW it makes me jealous.”

Totally cool: “I hope we’re together forever. I’m so in this for the long haul.”

Red flag: “If you ever left me, I would kill myself.”

Totally cool: “Your mom is really unkind to me, can we try to minimize how often you bring me when you visit her?”

Red flag: “Your mom hates me, you need to stop talking to her. She’s trying to ruin our relationship.”

Totally cool: “I love you so much, oh my god.”

Red flag: “It’s a good thing I love you so much, because no one else would. You’d be alone forever without me.”

Other important red flags to keep in mind: someone who wants to jump into emotional/financial co-dependence very fast (like moving in together right away, or becoming each other’s only confidantes right away) and won’t take no for an answer; someone who tries to minimize how often you leave the house or interact with other people; someone who threatens you or themselves or your family or pets or possessions or financial future; someone who uses guilt to keep you from leaving a relationship.

Very important reminder: You do not need a reason to leave a relationship. Neither does the other person (or people). A relationship is over when one of the people in it says it’s over, period. Obviously it’s kind to take the end of a long relationship seriously, but abusers and manipulators have lost the right to that conversation. Lie if you need to–your safety is much more important than their feelings.

Trust your instincts!

I will reblog this forever

This is so true and more people need to realise this

greyzipupjacket:

stallingdemons:

mistress-alexis:

deadinparadice:

• Depression Hotline:1-630-482-9696
• Suicide Hotline:1-800-784-8433
• LifeLine:1-800-273-8255
• Trevor Project:1-866-488-7386
• Sexuality Support:1-800-246-7743
• Eating Disorders Hotline:1-847-831-3438
• Rape and Sexual Assault:1-800-656-4673
• Grief Support:1-650-321-5272
• Runaway:1-800-843-5200, 1-800-843-5678, 1-800-621-4000
• Exhale:After Abortion Hotline/Pro-Voice: 1-866-4394253
• Child Abuse:1-800-422-4453
• UK Helplines:
• Samaritans (for any problem):08457909090 e-mail jo@samaritans.org
• Childline (for anyone under 18 with any problem):08001111
• Mind infoline (mental health information):0300 123 3393 e-mail: info@mind.org.uk
• Mind legal advice (for people who need mental-health related legal advice):0300 466 6463 legal@mind.org.uk
• b-eat eating disorder support:0845 634 14 14 (only open Mon-Fri 10.30am-8.30pm and Saturday 1pm-4.30pm) e-mail: help@b-eat.co.uk
• b-eat youthline (for under 25’s with eating disorders):08456347650 (open Mon-Fri 4.30pm – 8.30pm, Saturday 1pm-4.30pm)
• Cruse Bereavement Care:08444779400 e-mail: helpline@cruse.org.uk
• Frank (information and advice on drugs):0800776600
• Drinkline:0800 9178282
• Rape Crisis England & Wales:0808 802 9999 1(open 2 – 2.30pm 7 – 9.30pm) e-mail info@rapecrisis.org.uk
• Rape Crisis Scotland:08088 01 03 02 every day, 6pm to midnight
• India Self Harm Hotline:00 08001006614
• India Suicide Helpline:022-27546669
• Kids Help Phone (Canada):1-800-668-6868, Free and available 24/7
• suicide hotlines;
• Argentina:54-0223-493-0430
• Australia:13-11-14
• Austria:01-713-3374
• Barbados:429-9999
• Belgium:106
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• Switzerland:143
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• Trinidad and Tobago:868-645-2800
• Ukraine:0487-327715

Cause if i can help someone atleast I won’t have died in vain

This is so important, you all don’t even understand. 

If you are reading this and feel like no on is on your side, I am. I will always be on your side. I will not be against you. I will stand by you. 

Because your life fucking matters. Don’t you dare think it doesn’t. 

If you ever need anything, I’m here. I want to support you and show you the kindness you deserve. Your life is so so important– please never steal the chance to get to know wonderful you away from people you’ve yet to meet.
You’re worth so much

You ARE worth it. I care about you, your live DOES matter💞