I feel like a lot of people don’t want to ask questions they have about gender/sexuality to LGBT people because they don’t want to offend them because we talk about cishet people asking stupid or intrusive questions a lot
But actually when you’re questioning it’s really helpful to be able to ask some ‘stupid’ questions although you’re too afraid to
So can y’all LGBTQIA+ people reblog this if you’re totally fine with people asking questions about your gender/sexuality, as long as they do so respectfully
u ever just want to sit at the bottom of a pool or something. like if i could breathe underwater it would be a really nice, peaceful environment. especially if it was sunny and the water was nice and warm. just sittin there, watching the sunlight dance on the tiles? yeah. that’s a nice thought
People find it hard to understand depression. Yet so many people and even celebrities deal with it. Not all the money in the world or fame would stop it.
Depression is real and a mental illness that you deal with your whole life. Yet so many people don’t understand it or think it’s just “feeling sad.”
Please if you feel depressed and need help please call 1-800-273-8255 hotline. Available 24 hours.
You are not alone. Stay determined you are a gift to the world don’t give up.
despite my blog being a thinspo/weightloss one, i would never encourage another person to dislike their body or starve themselves. even though i reblog things that are questionable sometimes, they are entirely for me and intended to be used by me and me alone. even though i have regrettably adopted some unhealthy behaviors, i hate the thought of any one of my lovely followers doing the same thing. i care a hell of a lot about you guys. and i am always here if you need to talk.
shower. not a bath, a shower. use water as hot or cold as u like. u dont even need to wash. just get in under the water and let it run over you for a while. sit on the floor if you gotta.
moisturize everything. use whatever lotion u like. unscented? dollar store lotion? fancy ass 48 hour lotion that makes u smell like a field of wildflowers? use whatever you want, and use it all over.
put on clean, comfortable clothes.
put on ur favorite underwear. cute black lacy panties? those ridiculous boxers u bought last christmas with candy cane hearts on the butt? put em on.
drink cold water. use ice. if u want, add some mint or lemon for an extra boost.
clean something. doesn’t have to be anything big. organize one drawer of ur desk. wash five dirty dishes. do a load of laundry. scrub the bathroom sink.
blast music. listen to something upbeat and dancey and loud, something that’s got lots of energy. sing to it, dance to it, even if you suck at both.
make food. don’t just grab a granola bar to munch. take the time and make food. even if it’s ramen. add something special to it, like a hard boiled egg or some veggies. prepare food, it tastes way better, and you’ll feel like you accomplished something.
make something. write a short story or a poem, draw a picture, color a picture, fold origami, crochet or knit, sculpt something out of clay, anything artistic. even if you don’t think you’re good at it.
go outside. take a walk. sit in the grass. look at the clouds. smell flowers. put your hands in the dirt and feel the soil against your skin.
call someone. call a loved one, a friend, a family member, call a chat service if you have no one else to call. talk to a stranger on the street. have a conversation and listen to someone’s voice. if you can’t, text or email or whatever, just have some social interaction with another person. even if you don’t say much, listen to them.
cuddle your pets if you have them/can cuddle them. take pictures of them. talk to them. tell them how u feel, about your favorite movie, a new game coming out.
I started at 178 and I am now at 160 so here goes
• I can’t tell a difference in the appearance of my thighs or tummy, which sucks, BUT
• my wrists are thinner. I can wrap my hands around them.
• I no longer have a double chin
• when I grab at the skin on my back and shoulders, there isn’t much to grab
• I can exercise better
• my lips and eyes look bigger on my face
• my pants are looser
SO PLEASE DONT GET DISCOURAGED. LITTLE CHANGES HAPPEN. AND THEY WILL SOON TURN INTO BIG CHANGES. I LOVE YOU ALL SO MUCH AND I KNOW YOU CAN STICK TO YOUR PLAN AND MEET YOUR GOALS. STAY SAFE, I LOVE YOU AND I AM ALWAYS HERE TO SUPPORT YOU.
love always,
a slightly drunk skiintight who wants you to see the beauty in yourself even if I’m not good at doing so myself
ITS TRUE
For all of you lovelies starting at higher weights as I did! This is very true! 💖
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